Old habits die hard
New ones may be harder to eliminate.
Martin goes in search of his old friend Steve, but is shocked to find that he’s not only a greengrocer, but he’s become a rude bastard as well. Martin asks the neighbouring shopkeepers about Steve who’s known to be bad-tempered. Steve wonders whether any of his more amiable disposition survives, but no one seems to think so. Martin learns from the florist that Steve took an assertiveness training course to help him deal with difficult customers
So does Steve have a friendly disposition or not?
I don’t doubt that he does, but he doesn’t appear to know when to code switch. (I’m sure there’s probably some term for behavioural switches according to the social situation. I just don’t know what it is.) Also, if Steve’s got used to being a bastard, he may find it hard to break the habit. It doesn’t mean that Steve really is a different person, but his work persona doesn’t appear to stay at work.
So does Steve have a friendly disposition or not?
I don’t doubt that he does, but he doesn’t appear to know when to code switch. (I’m sure there’s probably some term for behavioural switches according to the social situation. I just don’t know what it is.) Also, if Steve’s got used to being a bastard, he may find it hard to break the habit. It doesn’t mean that Steve really is a different person, but his work persona doesn’t appear to stay at work.
Tomorrow, Martin remains sceptical and Steve’s been taking assertiveness medicine. Look out for flying fruit.
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